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Monday, January 23, 2006

Fun with blocks

Here are some pics of Astrid playing with her discovery blocks today.Her favorite block is the yellow one with a bell inside.Using her "pincer" grasp (index finger and thumb) to explore the cube. It cracks me up with I see her tiny index fingers poking and prodding away. Trying to extract the bell.
Also used as a teething toy.A picture of happiness.

Sunday, January 22, 2006

Two for tea and tea for two (Brunch with Astrid & Mara)

We had Julie, Jason, and their 9 month old baby Mara over for brunch today. Jason had a birthday recently and we weren't able to attend his party, so we invited them over for a Sunday champagne brunch at our house. The girls getting reacquainted. Sitting in their matching booster seats waiting for grub to be served.Still checking each other out.Feeding Central.
Both babies seem to have forgotten each other and are more interested in their food.
"But I already took a drink."
"Okay, one more sip."
"Mmm...bananas."
Proud papas with their girls on their laps. Jason & Mara. Uwe & Astrid.
Both babies looking straight into the camera.

Jason and I were discussing how it's funny to see our mother's interacting with our daughters. You assume since she raised you that she would be the baby expert but as a parent now you realize that she's no more of an expert than you and in some instances you question whether she really knew what she was doing when she raised you. Jason jokingly asked his mom, "Are you sure you raised me? How did I survive?" His mom's cute respond was, "Sorry, I'm a little out of practice."

When I was visiting my parents recently my mom tried to give Astrid a Ramen noodle. Now Uwe and I spend a lot of money to give Astrid only the best organic foods and formula and we make sure she has a healthy diet with no preservatives or additives. Even her rice cereal is brown rice, not white rice and nothing she eats is processed or bleached. And here's my mom trying to feed her a deep fried, bleached flour, MSG and lard soaked noodle with no nutritional value. I couldn't believe it. I asked, "What are you doing? That's not good for her!" as I swiped the noodle away from her mouth before she ate it. My mom responded, "What's wrong with it? I rinsed it off." Obviously our ideas of what is good for the baby and what is a no no are completely different.

And then Jason told me about a friend's mom who tries to be helpful and thinks he's a clueless dad. One day when he was running Mara's bath, his friend's mom came running over and stuck her hand under the water. Jason gave her a puzzled look and she said, "Oh I just wanted to make sure the water wasn't too hot." And then she asked him what he was using in her bath. She actually thought he was using dishwashing liquid. Haha! I can relate. My mom loves giving me unsolicited advice such as "Make sure she can stand up. Right now she needs to practice standing up." I have to calmly explain that yes I know and that we have a Jumperoo and an exersaucer (which weren't around when I was a kid) which she can stand in and she does everyday. I mean we're first time parents but we're not completely clueless! Astrid was born on April 19 and Mara was born on April 22, just 3 days apart. They're both going to be celebrating their 1st birthday in 3 months. How time flies!

So everyone mark your calendars tentatively for the weekend of Sunday April 23rd for Astrid's 1 year birthday party!
This pic tickles me because it's the snapshot of the reality of having 2 kids. Julie is putting things away in the diaper bag (mommies have to be super organized), Mara is bending backwards and Jason's holding onto his little acrobat, Astrid looks like she's about to cry, and Uwe is smiling. The organized chaos of having kids. One minute they can be laughing, the next crying, the next hungry. You just have to go with the flow as a parent and adapt to any situation as best as you can.
Astrid sitting in her Aquarium swing and Mara playing in Astrid's exersaucer. It was sweet to see them interacting. Mara being in daycare 1/2 days during the week is used to being around other children. She would watch Astrid and listen to her chatter, and then laugh.

At times they were both very aware that their was another baby in the room, but then at other times they seemed to be in their own worlds. After feeding the girls and eating (I made a breakfast casserole dish and a hash brown dish) we went upstairs to watch football and let the girls play and interact with each other on the floor. I don't have any pics of that unfortunately but Astrid crawled over to Mara and they got real close and Mara and Astrid reached out to touch each other. Very sweet.

They both went down for naps at the same time in the afternoon and we parents had some time to relax. That is until Astrid woke up crying and woke Mara up. Oh well, it happens.

It's so nice to have girls so close in age. Julie and I can relate to all the same developmental stages and things the girls are doing. And we can relate to being a first time moms and all of the hurdles and joy it brings.

Saturday, January 21, 2006

Brunch @ Urth Caffe & a trip to the toy store (The Acorn Store)

Today we went to brunch at Urth Caffe in Santa Monica. I like it there but Uwe doesn't. We've been there a number of times so why do we have a difference of opinion?

Here's why:

1) It's a bit of a drive, but it's also in Santa Monica near the ocean.

2) There's always a long line, but it goes fast.

3) It's very cramped inside and not easy to maneuver around with a stroller, but today we saw 3 strollers there in addition to ours so lots of parents with babies go there too.

3) The bill was almost $40 without tip, but that's because Uwe ordered an entree AND a fruit salad (which was just as expensive as his entree).

4) I love being able to sit outside in the outdoor patio area that has a small fountain, but that's also where their workers (some of whom have very bad table manners) eat. Uwe has little tolerance for people with bad table manners and twice we've been seated next to people with BTM. It doesn't bother me since I've grown up in the Korean culture as well and experienced much different table manners than say Germans who make no noise while eating and have very strict rules about the proper way to eat. One of Uwe's German friends was telling us how her father made her eat while holding books under her arms so that she would always keep her arms to her sides while eating. Also, Uwe's mother was known to say, "The spoon goes to the mouth; not the mouth to the spoon." (That's not to say that Koreans don't have any rules because they have lots of them regarding the placement of food. Bowl of rice in front of you, and the soup to the right, etc.) So we solved the problem by moving to a different table with Uwe sitting at a chair with his back facing the BTM people so he wouldn't have to see them. Meanwhile I ate away and didn't mind them in the least.

5) Uwe's mushroom omelet was mostly cheese. This was the first time he ordered an entree there that he didn't like. We've been twice before and the food was always good. So I'm of the opinion to avoid the omelets next time or tell them to hold the cheese. "So what's the verdict mom? Are we coming back or is this our last time here?"

So that you don't think I'm so easy going that I don't care where I eat, I have to share that there was one restaurant that Uwe loved when we first met, but I couldn't stand their food. We'd go there for breakfast and my eggs would always be runny and my food would be cold and bland. The restaurant is called "House of Pies" and it's a coffee shop/diner type of place that makes great pies. One day we were out with friends and this friend shared my opinion about this place and said, "Ugh...House of Pies...more like House of Poo." So I became fond of calling it "House of Poo" and we've never been back.Here's our food. I had the spinach and mushroom quiche that comes with a salad. YUM! Uwe had a mushroom omelet that comes with a salad and bread, and also a fruit salad. The fruit was very fresh and flavorful. Not pictures are out drinks which came later. A decaf latte for Uwe and a mango hot tea for me. "Bula."

The orchid behind Astrid's ear reminds me of Fiji. These orchids were used to decorate everywhere. (One day I will write about and post pics from our Fiji babymoon in Jan. 2005).

If you scroll back to the pic above you'll see that it was a decorative flower on Uwe's fruit plate. Thoughtful looking.Feeling around in her mouth with her finger. Possibly another tooth.Side view of Astrid with the purple orchid behind her ear.My perfect model. She wasn't bothered by the flower and didn't try to take it off.She doesn't suck her thumb, but it does the job when trying to feel around in her mouth.Saliva soaked fingers = a happy baby. Uwe's very own "Tickle Me Astrid" doll.Astrid touching Uwe's mouth. She's doing this a lot lately. She'll want to touch our mouth and reach in with her fingers. If I stick my tongue out real quick she'll squeal with laughter.Astrid touching Uwe's nose. Something you hear a lot around this house is, "Be gentle. Astrid be gentle." We're modeling what gentle means by softly touching Astrid's face and taking her hand and showing her how to gently touch our faces. Otherwise she would claw our eyes out and rip our lips and noses off. After brunch we headed over to a toy store called "The Acorn Store." The store is unique in that their toys are all natural (as in handmade, wood), and none of their toys require batteries or are made of plastic. Originally I had read about The Acorn Store in an issue of Los Angeles Magazine (I believe a "Best of LA" issue) and we drove to the store one Sunday in July, however they're closed on Sundays. So today, since we were in Santa Monica and not too far from the store, (and it was Saturday) we decided to check it out.

On the outside of the store they have wooden cutouts for a tree and a fortress as well as wooden bicycles, tricycles and scooters.

The Acorn Store doesn't seem to have a website but I've listed their address and telephone number below for anyone's who's interested. (Trailhead I know you were interested when I first mentioned the store. Since you don't live in CA maybe they have a brochure or something they could send you.)

1220 5th Street
Santa Monica, CA 90401
(310) 451-5845

A closeup shot of the front of the store. You can see Uwe inside. This wall had age appropriate toys for little babies. Almost all of these wooden toys are made in Germany.

Uwe grew up in Germany where there were small toy shops with handmade toys that inspired your imagination as a kid. I would have loved to have experienced that as a kid, but I grew up in California and my parents only shopped for toys at Toys R Us where all of the toys are made of plastic and mass produced. Uwe found the exact same wooden toolbox and tool kit that he had as a kid. He said he used to play with it for hours and his favorite thing to do was take the big wooden screwdriver and screw the wooden screws in (even though he said it would have been easier to do it by hand, but more fun to use the screwdriver). Astrid is still too young to play with it, but as soon as she's a bit older we're going to buy it for her.

Here are the toys that we purchased: These are discovery blocks. Six colored wooden cubes with built in surprises; rattle, push-button, mirror, rotating ball, colored plexiglass, and kaleidoscope.A wooden stacking clown to develop hand-eye coordination.A wooden shape sorting box.Unit blocks on wheels. Includes 36 solid wood blocks in different colors and shapes. It also has a rope attached so that it can be pulled along. This music box winds up and has two ducks that spin around to the music from "Love Story". It's called "Dizzy Ducks". It doesn't require any batteries and works using magnets. Very clever. The ducks are not attached. You can take them off and play with them separately. They also had another one with ladybugs spinning around on top of a box that had a flower painted on the top.

I liked that all of these toys are very well made. None of them have plastic, or glue. They're also painted with a non-toxic paint that is safe for children and does not come off.

How I'd look as a Simpsons character

A friend posted a link on my blog to a website with a "Simpomaker" tool that allows you to create your own Simpsons character. He thought my husband would like it since Uwe is a big Simpsons fan. But hey isn't this my blog?
In case you missed it, I did something similar awhile back when I created a family portrait South Park style.

Click here to make your own Simpsons character.

Peter a blogger friend also created his own image Simpsons style. Check it out here. His blog (documenting each day of his son Julius' life and his life as a parent) inspired me to start my own blog.

Wake me up before you go go

When Uwe came home last night we had a chance to catch up and I told him how that afternoon when I went into Astrid's bedroom after her nap I found her propped up on her knees holding onto the railing of her crib. It made me nervous to see her head and arms above the top of the rail and I was concerned that she could fall out of her crib. I asked Uwe to look at the crib to see if there was some way to lower the mattress. (Subsequently we found that you can't lower the mattress but you can raise the side rail of the crib.)

Uwe assured me that she was fine. Since she wasn't standing yet, the possibility of her getting high enough to fall over the side of the crib was very low. But he said he would take a look at the crib in the morning to see what he could do to make it safer.

So this morning I was jolted awake by a loud "boom" sound. We've had a few really windy days that have blown the side wooden gate to the backyard open and when it slams shut it makes a loud noise. In the couple seconds it took me to jump out of bed and run to Astrid's room (luckily her bedroom is right next to ours), I was really hoping it was the gate and that I was just overreacting.

As soon as I opened the door I saw Astrid lying on the floor on her back with her legs spread eagle and her arms stretched out in a Jesus pose. I stayed calm and went into emergency 101 mode. I quickly picked her up and examined her to assess if there is any real injury. Thankfully she was fine. I thanked my lucky stars that we put a thick hand-woven rug down next to her crib. Since she landed on that (rather than the hardwood floors), it softened her fall.

I rubbed her head and back and kissed her cheek and told her it was okay. It happened so fast but I don't recall her crying immediately after her fall. I think she only started crying when she saw me. It might have been because of her free fall, (which for a baby must have felt like she was falling from a tall building) which scared her, and/or having the wind knocked out of her since she landed on her back. Recreating the event in my mind (since I wasn't there to see it), she must have fallen forward and done a full somersault in mid air in order to have landed on her back with her head facing the crib. Very scary!

I carried her into our room and Uwe immediately asked if she was okay. By this time she had pretty much stopped crying. We ruled out a concussion because she was smiling afterwards and didn't show any signs of nausea. But it was still very scary and right after Uwe adjusted the crib. I would recommend every parent who has a baby that's even starting to crawl to adjust their baby's crib to keep an accident like this from happening to them.

On a lighter note:
Uwe being the adventurer that he is said, "You know, if we hadn't heard her fall, and she didn't hurt herself, she could have crawled all around her room for awhile without us knowing and gotten into everything."

Hearing that made me picture her scaling up the railing of her crib, putting one leg, then the other over the railing, and jumping down. Then standing there looking around her room and thinking to herself, "It's party time!" I'm hoping this isn't a premonition of things to come!

Friday, January 20, 2006

Batten down the hatches we've got a crawler onboard

In addition to crawling, Astrid has figured out how to swing a door open and get out. So now we have to make sure doors are securely shut AND we have child safety gates in place around the stairwell.

That's your baby?

Astrid and I went shopping today to pick up a couple things for our trip to Florida. While in the baby section a woman and her little boy were standing nearby us. Astrid could see them from her vantage point sitting in her carseat attached to the shopping cart. She immediately turned on her charm and gave lots of coy looks and big smiles. The woman oohed and ahhed and kept saying how adorable Astrid was. She said her husband would love to see her because he loves babies (and then told me she has 4 kids and nodded her head as if to say it was her husband's fault).

They said their goodbyes and left but about 10 minutes later the lady and her son returned, this time with her husband in tow. She said, "I had to bring my husband over to see your beautiful baby." He took one look at Astrid and when she smiled at him you could tell she melted his heart. His face lit up like a Christmas tree. "What a cute baby!" he exclaimed. Then he looked at me and asked, "That's your baby?"

I'm sure he wasn't implying that I'm not cute because my baby pics could give Astrid a run for her money. And I still think I'm pretty cute if I do say so myself. I'm sure it was because of the race issue. Astrid looks White. I look Asian. End of discussion. In the past when I've gotten puzzled looks or questions I've always explained how my husband is German and has blond hair and blue eyes and Astrid takes after him...blah blah blah. But not today. Today there would be no explanation added like a footnote to explain how it was possible for me to have a blond haired, blue eyed, white baby. "Yes, she's my baby" I said with a smile. In the nicest possible symbolic elbow nudge to the ribs his wife quickly intervened and said, "Oh she has her Mommy's eyes but not their color." That made me feel better.

Maybe I should wear a t-shirt when I go out that says, "My recessive genes won and I have a White baby to prove it." or "Yes, she's my baby. Would you like to see my scar?" Sheesh.

Waiting patiently for mommy to get ready

We no longer use the vibration on the bouncy chair but we still the chair sometimes when we're getting ready. Like today for instance I brought Astrid into the bathroom with me so she could play with her toys while I brushed my hair and put my makeup on. As long as she can see me and be close to me she's usually happy.

Uwe says she looks Asian in these photos but she's really just squinting from the sun. We have glass blocks on one wall of the bathroom that lets a lot of sunlight in.